You Can’t Photoshop an Ugly Personality

Sometimes you just have to be done, Not Mad, Not Upset, Just Done!!

                                                           

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We all are surrounded by so many kind of peoples out there and the terrible part is each and every one of them have their own persona and their own Thinking, Values, beliefs and these all traits are part of their personality i.e. they judge every single moment on the basis of these traits or you can say on the basis of their personality. Worst part is everyone thinks that “I am right” and we see this culture everywhere, at our home between our family members and with friends and with our colleagues etc.

Now I am coming to fucking worst things i.e. when our Personality carries our EGO and this is the stage where we forget about what is right or wrong we just think that I am the King/Queen and how could I be wrong??  At this stage we are in the situation when we just try to prove ourselves right even if we are wrong and we know that irrespective of thinking that this could harm someone’s mental or emotional health in a fucking way and this is because they are just like that and these kind of peoples have very less emotions towards anything or anyone, they can choose any way to prove themselves right what I am trying to say is that this is their overall personality. Someone rightly said that-

“An  ugly personality will  always  ruin  a  beautiful  face

There are different personalities exist such as some peoples are like they are normal with every situation and they react normally and they don’t trust on intervening in any matter and there are peoples who raise their voices against wrong but very calmly and decently and then there comes peoples who raise their voices against wrong but the way of raising the voice seems lill bit toxic while they are fighting for the right but because of their tone of the voice they proved wrong themselves and the wrong one becomes right for everyone. Others have nothing to do with right or wrong because other peoples judge what they see without considering the fact but the personality of the person, even the tone of your voice can make you wrong while you are perfectly right. So, for being right you need to improve yourself and your each toxic trait that makes your personality bitter even when you are with the truth and right. There are peoples who neither thinks that they are wrong nor they are ready to understand the situation or the peoples and the consequences at any cost not because they don’t want to, it is because their personality don’t allow them to understand anything or anyone so for these kind of personalities you need to make changes in yourself so that you never get bother by their actions and reactions and to save yourself from the outcomes that could harm your mental peace and emotional health. It is rightly said that-

“It’s not that some people have willpower and some don’t, it’s that some people are ready to change and some are not.”

All I want to say is instead of fighting and proving yourself we should choose the way where there are no fights and bitterness and we should ready to accept others values and beliefs if they are right keeping aside your EGO , it’s better to choose right then being a reason of someone’s mental or  emotional breakdown. And  the most important part is as we all know learning never ends so why we stop ourselves in our own world, we all should be ready to change ourselves according to situation and the peoples you are surrounded with otherwise you will lose your mental peace and morals of your life and if you don’t accept the change then you will also turn to be a UGLY PERSONALITY.

“The beauty on the inside, will determine the ugly on the outside.”                                                                             –  Anthony Liccione

EVERYTHING IS THE WAY YOU THINK

“You become what you digest into your spirit. Whatever you think about, focus on, read about, and talk about, you’re going to attract more of into your life. Make sure they’re all positive.”                           ― Germany Kent

We all are different from each other and that is too in our own way because we all have different perspective about the things, we all react differently in different situations and we all have different way of treating peoples and giving importance to something and setting our priorities. Exactly like that we all have different visions and missions in our life and all this is because of our thinking process. Our life is all about the way we think.

Our way of living the life depends on what we think in our mind and how we see the life and what decision we make in life which are wholly influenced by our thought process. And most important our thought process is highly influenced by the environment in which we live and by the peoples we are surrounded with and their thinking, by our habits, by our inspirations. Our family also plays a very important role in our life such as our values and beliefs that we follow in life is somewhere are given by our family and it effects our thinking as our thinking is influenced by the values and ethics that we follow in life.

There are some peoples who thinks that life should be smooth going and they go with the flow of life, they are not ready to accept any complications and struggles in life, they are happy with whatever life is giving to them. They don’t have any desires and aims in life and it is because of their thinking which is limited to their values and beliefs which they follow and there are some peoples who are just want to grow and achieve something in life and they are not satisfied with what they have. This is just because their thought process is wide and their thought process get effected by each and everything that is going on in front of them. They inspire their thoughts from everything which they do, it may be reading or watching someone achieving something great and it may be their dreams, it may be a movie or series, it may be any incident, it may be any person.

Thinking may be negative or positive. There are peoples who see negative every time in everything. They are habitual of using words such as No, I can’t etc and this is because they think negative, their thoughts are limited to these words and they are so lazy and resist to change that they even don’t try to get over of this myth that life is going to be easy and smooth for them if they will not widen their thinking process and if they will not come out of their comfort box. And these kind of people struggle the whole life without achieving anything in their life thinking that they are happy and living easy life but this is not the reality. And on the other hand there are people who think before each and every action and who are not afraid of struggles and complications if they want to achieve something and want to do something in their life because they have such thinking process that they will do it for sure or even if it does not work then it is also fine because at least they tried and made themselves satisfied by doing that. It was not result in success but it gave them learning and experience. These kind of peoples are adaptable to different situations and ready to make changes in their thinking process according to requirement, surrounding and environment when needed. Someone rightly said that-

You are not a real thinker if your thoughts haven’t landed you in trouble yet”

What I want to say in whole discussion was just that what we do and what we will do in our life is just guided by our thoughts. Our actions are just the representation of our thinking process so, wherever you are in your life and what you are is just the result of the way you think. So you just need to remove the words “NO”, “I can’t” from your thinking and need to come out of your comfort box. It is your thinking that can make you the better person. Your thinking may lead you to the destination which you have dreamed off. Or sometimes your thinking becomes your identity and it makes you unique from others.

“LIFE IS ALL ABOUT THE WAY YOU THINK”, So think positive it will lead you towards the positive and happy life.

GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION

“Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes.”

We all have two different life, a professional life and a personal life and both are extremely different from each other but perfectly correlated with one another i.e. if something is happening in professional life then it will surely impact your personal life to some extent and it depends on your personality that what kind of person you are in carrying both life’s together. What I think is that the ultimate goal behind everything that we do in our life is just to have a peaceful and happy life. But having peaceful and happy life is fucking difficult, sometimes we actually lose our all hopes and desires of being happy as being happy is like an impossible in today’s world and we ourselves are the reason for making our life complicated.

We are busy in living our life in a way that is making our life complicated and leading us to the path on which we will get nothing but depression, frustration, regrets, and demotivation for the rest of our life and so on. We are busy in forming so much expectations before actions, busy in pleasing other, copying others rather than becoming best version of ourselves, and concentrating on what others are doing in their life than concentrating on our own life and we are in making others happy and avoiding our own happiness and scared of what others and the society will think if we will choose what we actually wants to do i.e. our own happiness. The same case is with the relations as we make so many relations in our life at different point of times and try to carry them to our whole life with full honesty and at some point of time there comes a situation when we scared of losing those relations, those peoples which are means a lot to us because we don’t do exactly what they want, because we have to compromise our ethics our way of living to make them happy and all the above we can’t be what we actually are in front of them because it is not acceptable to them.

But the question is what about our own happiness?, why we are busy in pleasing others,?why we are busy in copying other instead of being what you are?, why we are busy in making others happy?, why we are scared of losing peoples? if they are not ours, if they were then they will not let you go. Why we are compromising our goals to make others feel comfortable?, why we are think of society before doing something for ourselves?

We all have our own life, space, desires, goals, habits, hobbies, and some disqualities and all these makes us unique and different from others. But the point is whether we are pursuing all this in living our life. why we are resist to pursue what we love to do. Just give permission to yourself to live freely and on your own rules and on your own space. You don’t have to think about others, you don’t have to explain anything to others. Don’t let anyone give the power to control you. You are alone enough to accomplish your goal, just work hard. You are enough to make yourself happy.

First learn to love yourself then love others. If you can’t love and accept yourself as you are then you can’t achieve anything in your life for sure.  All I want to say is it’s okay to be selfish. It’s okay to be misunderstood.  It’s okay to not to do something and sitting idle for sometime. it’s okay to make changes in your goals, if required. It’s okay to lose someone if it is not worth it. It’s okay to hang out with friends if it makes you happy. It’s okay to have peace in your life as you right to have that. It is fact that you can’t make everyone happy at the same time so it’s okay to make yourself happy and to think about yourself over others.

It’s okay guys if you’re making mistakes in your life because mistakes leads us to the right path. Mistakes teach you the difference between write or wrong and will give you the chances to rise again and to correct. So, according to me-

“NOT MAKING MISTAKES IS YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE.”

AN IDIOT WITH A PLAN CAN BEAT A GENIUS WITHOUT A PLAN

“A clear vision, backed by definite plans, gives you a tremendous feeling of confidence and personal power.” ― Brian Tracy

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We all are different from each other, may be the skill that I have other person don’t have that skill. If someone is good at studies then other may be good at cooking so our talents are different and these talents and hobbies differentiate us from each other.

We can’t just dream and directly execute without a planning, it will result in failure. To get success we need a proper planning just as for buying house middle class family needs to save money for may be 5-6 years or may be 8-9 years or may be more, so they used planning even to buy a house. This was a living example of planning that we see in our life. So planning is needed at every level of life i.e. in personal life, in professional life etc. Planning is the starting phase which shows the process that will lead us to completion of our dream.

Even in our day to day life we use planning so that we can accomplish the work that we had decided in the morning till the end of the day. So planning is involved even in our daily life Just like that our future is also the result of the planning that we had done in our past. Planning is something that gives us confidence and a feeling of personal power and strength to fight for our dreams and make those dreams successful. When we start the process of achieving something without a proper planning and result is negative then we start regretting and criticizing that we should have done this or that, so it is better to spend time on planning what you can or will do, then on spending time on contemplating on what you should have done. It is well said-

“When you do the things in the present that you can see, you are shaping the future that you are yet to see.”

Idowu Koyenikan

In my whole above discussion I was explaining that planning is the key of success. Let’s have example there were two students. One was very intelligent in studies and other was an average. They both were preparing for the same exams. The intelligent one was one spending his more time on enjoying with friends and less time on study as he was thinking that he is good at studies he does not need to spend more time and he did not make any plan which subject he should start first and how much time it will take him to finish that subject so that he can start the other subject also and revisions are also to be done. While the other one who was an average at studies planned his schedule according to the time left for exams and included revision also in the schedule and in the middle of the preparation he felt that some changes to the planning are needed to accomplish the whole syllabus so he made necessary changes and executed that planning in the same way. As a result of this an average one student cleared the exams and passed with good marks because he planned his time in the best way  to get best outcome although he was not so intelligent while the intelligent one got failed because he did not use his time in the best manner.

It is okay to make changes to the planning if needed in the middle of the journey as changes are requirement of time and we should moderate our plan as and when required. One more important thing is that only having a dream in the eyes and planning in mind is not enough also we need to STAY on that planning and follow the each and every step of the planning is important to accomplish the dream and to reach our destination.

At last I will say that whenever you decide to do something in your life whether to own a business or to have a house of your choice or to spend your life enjoying with the friends or anything else, then your choices and   actions are shaping your future as well as your family’s future so, just plan your actions or your life accordingly that what you are doing? and where you wants to go? And how you will reach there? So that you can achieve it on time and in the same manner as you want and it causes no harm to you and your closed ones. Someone rightly said that-

“By Failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”

                                                                             – Benjamin Franklin

A LOVE STORY

We all go through a special feeling at some point of time in our life “the feeling of love”. The feeling when we feel that we want nothing else, when we feel that I am top of the world, the feeling which makes us realize that I am the special one, which becomes the reason to live a happy life and the person whom we love becomes the reason of our mood swings.

We all fall in love once in our life. I also fell in love for a guy who was as weird as Kabir Singh and I was having dream to spend my life with him since my childhood. He was not aware of my feelings at all. Time passed and I started my higher studies and I was a girl with full of dreams of being successful and passionate. He was a guy with chilling attitude and with the qualities like calm, introvert, angry young man kind of attitude, he was just opposite of me but still strong feelings were there in my heart for him.

My mentality for him was why he will choose me over other girls because he was good looking, fashionable, and was living royal life with his royal friends and I was a girl with simplicity who was not aware about fashion, who never cared that how she is looks. Someone rightly said that if you want something from all of your heart, you will surely get that. So, one day suddenly I got a message on facebook and that was from him, and just a message from him made my day, I started talking to him and I don’t know it was destiny or love or something else but we both fall in love with each other madly, I got a man of my dreams, it was not less than a dream come true for me. I never thought that I will be so important to him, I will become part of his life and he was the one who changed himself a lot for me.

But we are humans, we do mistakes and correct them, we expect to be understood by the person whom we love. But in my case a mistake ruined our relationship but when two souls love each other truly, they cannot be separated. Because of that mistake they broken up with each other but they forget that it’s hard to live without each other. A true love can never get fade for any reason. But because of the ego and over thinking we try to forget that person who love us more than we love ourselves and all the memories they had together and all the dream of living together.

But I just wanted to say complete your love stories, don’t leave them incomplete because of your misunderstandings, and become the backbone of your relationship and don’t let them go if you love them truly, try as hard as possible to live a happy and a dream life with them.

At last I just wanted to say that-

My love story is beautiful with lots of love, care, arguments, cheating, mistakes, and fights and crying for each other still I don’t know about my love story whether it will complete or not but try hard to complete yours.

 “I will never regret you, or say I wish I would never met you because once upon a time you were exactly what I needed and what I wish for. – Pilli version        

AN ANGEL OF MY LIFE

We all go through a lot of situations which seems unbearable and it takes our everything, our emotions, our time etc and becomes the reason of our mental stress and depression. We all face these situations at some point of time in our life when we realize that there should be someone who stands by us just for sake of listening whatever we have done whether it is wrong or right without being judgmental or criticizing. Some people call that person their friend, some people call it family member and some people call it their life partner.

But I call that person an angel of my life who never gets tired of my Continuous crying eyes, who never gets tired of my depressed behavior, who never gets tired of my silly talks, who never gets tired of being cheated by me and who never gets tired of my Demotivated behavior and so on.  An angel whose care and affection is selfless and unconditional, who is available for me each and every time when I need the most and when I was falling down that angel was there to raise me again. When I was doubting on my dreams, he was the one who believed in my dreams and gave me that confidence that whatever hurdles will come in my way I will cross all those hurdles and will accomplish all the dreams, one of those dreams was to be a blogger, today I have completed that dream and I am living that dream and I can say myself a blogger. I promise you, I will try to complete all my dreams.

 An angel who can feel my emotion and who took my insult as his own insult, who always get ready to fight with everyone for me and who corrects me if i choose wrong path, who stand by my decisions whether it will cause mental stress to him and who never guide me wrong for the sake of his own profit. I can write thousands of pages but the story will not end.

I know first when we listen so much good things for a person then suddenly a question comes in our mind that how could someone be so selfless and so good. As in today’s time these kind of person does not exist. Nobody have time for others and nobody does anything for anyone without any reason or without any demand. It came in my mind too and i tried a lot to find it out but I failed every time and I found these kind of souls still exist in today’s environment and I am the luckiest one who got that angel and that soul in my life.

But as we all know that no one can stay with us for the whole life because we all have some priorities and some more important relations in our life that we have to leave them behind and we have to look forward.

I wish you could stay with me for the whole life as my shadow and my best friend but it could not happen because I have to do it for my priorities and my relations who are more important to me then myself. I couldn’t hurt them. You always want me to be so much strong that I even don’t need you and can face everything on my own. You want me to be a selfish person so that I can think of me first before others. I am being selfish now and I hope you will like it. At last I wanted to say that-

“You are the best soul I have ever met. Thank you.”

DON’T LET YOUR EMOTIONS DISTRACT YOU

“Your emotions make you human. Even the unpleasant ones have a purpose. Don’t lock them away. If you ignore them, they just get louder and angrier.”                                        ― Sabaa Tahir

We all feel several kind of emotions during our day to day life such as sadness, happiness, regretted, frustrated, anger, falling in love, being cheated, dominated by someone and so many. Our life is mixture of lots of emotions that we feel at some point of time in our life. In today’s world what I feel is that everyone is facing some sort of emotional issues in their life. There are peoples who get out of their emotions easily, they know how to control them and there are lot so other people who are just facing and getting dominated by their emotions and allowing their emotions to ruin their own life and making it difficult to feel happiness around there and live their life.

Having emotions and feeling each and every moment of our life is not a mistake, we all should have emotions and feelings in life because we are humans and our emotions makes us human. A man without emotions is not a human it is a body who is living for any purpose and those kinds of humans do not care about others feelings and emotions. I just want to say that let your emotions comes out, do not be afraid of what others will think about you, cry out loud, if needed, it is a sign of strong peoples who know how to show their emotions in front of peoples. Do not lock your emotions because if you will lock your emotions, it will just get louder and angrier which will become toxic to your mental health and will lead you to a destructive path which will ruin your life. Someone rightly said that-

“Don’t be ashamed to weep; its right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. A wounded heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us.”                                       ― Brian Jacques

It is not bad to have emotions and feelings but allowing emotions to control you becomes toxic. Make yourself so strong that emotions itself heals you and make that emotion, which is killing you inside, your reason to get out of it and stand up as a more strong human. It’s good to face these situation, these situations makes us stronger and gives us power to have more strong decisions in life. There are peoples who don’t feel too much as they care about themselves, they know that if they will give attention to their emotions then it will become the reason of their sadness and frustration, so they prefer to be selfish and decides to not feel too much and keep themselves away from emotions and nothing is bad in it because they are worried about their mental health, about their life, so they chose to control their emotions instead of giving power to emotions to control them. It is rightly said that-

“Life is a comedy to those who think a tragedy to those who feel.”                                                                                 ― Jean Racine

Surround yourself with happy and good energy and start doing whatever you like and love to do and keep toxic peoples and emotions away from you. Start controlling your emotions and whenever needed go and share your fears and emotions which are killing you inside to your family members and your closed ones and restrict yourself from being depressed. Be selfish when required and nothing is bad in being selfish for yourself.

“I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.”

DAD – DAUGTER’S SUPER HERO

A father’s tears and fears are unseen, his love is unexpressed, but his care and protection remain as a pillar of strength throughout our lives.”

– Ama H. Vanniarachchy

I know, nobody can explain a word and a relationship which is called “DAD” but here I am just trying to express, what DAD means to us. The role which a man called DAD plays in every daughter’s life is the kind of role which no one in this world can play and the importance that he has in daughter’s life, nobody else can have that importance in this world because DAD itself is the world for a daughter. Nobody can have position like her father in daughter’s life. Nobody can protect a girl like her father.

Father is someone who stand by their daughter even if she does something wrong and will teach her to correct her mistake without judging and will be ready to support in every hard time even when this society and this world will stand against his daughter. He is an example of strength, unconditional love and care. DAD is someone who let her daughter feel like a princess. DAD is someone who lives for your smile and DAD is someone who hides his pain to make us smile. It is rightly said that-

Dad is someone, who can play like a kid, give advice like a friend, and protect like a bodyguard.” 

Let me share my personal experience with my DAD. I think I have best DAD in the world who is happy if he see me smiling, he feels sad when I am sad, he feels and celebrate my success more than me and he take my achievements as his achievements and when I share my dreams with my father then he feels that those dreams are his own and start supporting me unconditionally. I make jokes with my father, I laugh with him like a crazy child, he is my best friend. There was a time when I was leaving home for my first job then he started crying thinking I am leaving him and he would not be able to see me daily and thinking now he has to keep in mind time factor to meet or see that daughter who means a world to him and at that time I was excited to do a job and having a better career but I was not thinking of leaving my DAD but after leaving home I realized I am nothing without my DAD, I thought now I am able to survive independently but I realized that i can never survive without my DAD, he is the reason of my confidence, my happiness, my strength , he is my everything. I am the kind of daughter who start calling her father even if she is not getting taxi easily to reach home from her office. If my DAD is with me and supports me then I can fight any battle easily. I feel top of the world when I become the reason of his SMILE and when he considers me as his PRIDE.

I THINK, DAD’s ARE AN ANGEL OF EVERY DAUGHTER. Let me refer a quote here-

In the darkest days, when I feel inadequate, unloved and unworthy, I remember whose daughter I am and I straighten my crown.”

Like me for every daughter her DAD is a ideal man who protects her, who make sacrifices to make her dreams come true, who understands his daughter’s each and every feelings whether is it happiness or sadness, who teach her daughter, how to be better person in life and how to get over from hard times and how to share and give happiness to peoples and how to choose right way to reach to the destination.

This is never ending discussion. In last I wanted to say that-

My DAD is my pride, My everything and I love him more than I love myself.

Guys if you have not expressed your feelings to your DAD till now that how much you love him then go and express it right now, after expressing you will feel top of the world.

share your best experiences and moments with your DAD in our comment section.

A CHILD INSIDE ME

“Let us liberate ourselves from any form of control. Let us focus at the inner drum, where the rhythm aligns with that of our heart. The measure of responsibility equals to the need for evolution. Just listen, the inner child, let it whisper in your ear.” ― Grigoris Deoudis 

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We all are adults now and surrounded by so much hectic schedules and worries about so many things, some are busy in their higher studies, some are busy in their professional life’s, some are busy in getting married and so on. We have lot of responsibilities to fulfill towards our family, towards our friends, and for ourselves but somewhere during the process of completing these responsibilities we forgot to live our own life and to enjoy our own company.

We all are grown up now but growing does not mean that we have lost our childhood and I think we all have a child inside us and that inner child of us does not care about our age. The thing is we need to give that child freedom to enjoy and live its own journey and to annoy the peoples who are closed to us. There are time when we all feel that we need to share things which are making us worried to our close friends because we are not afraid of them that they will take it as joke in fact they will stand with us, just in the same way our inner child comes out with the person we are most comfortable with.

Let’s take my example, I have a child inside me who comes out when I am with my closest one and i am not afraid of reacting silly in front of them, I use to dance, sing loudly in such a irritating way and sometimes reacts like such a foolish girl and laugh madly making such a noisy sound and most important I use to even cry like a child in front of them if I feel frustrated or sad and all this happens not only in a close room but also roadside when we go to walk and they are perfectly okay with this kind of my nature, they don’t feel offended by such behavior of mine because they love me, they wants to see me happy. So I just want to say that give permission to yourself to play fearlessly without caring of what others will think, it will make your life even much better. Let me refer a perfect quote here –

Take those moments when something affects you deeply, or tickles your fancy, or peaks your curiosity, to give in and allow your Inner Child to explore, NO judgements, no role-playing, no need to impress. No adulting by modern standards.” ― Runa Pigden

I personally think that it is our inner child who becomes curious if something affects us deep inside and raise questions from us and try to find the ways to overcome the situations without making any judgments on ourselves. So, it is necessary to keep your inner child alive and well. While our adulthoods are a relentless assault of unrealistic demands and enormous responsibility, the ever curious inner child ask the vital questions, like, why is this important? And, will this make me happy?

There is a well known quote –

We nurture our creativity when we release our inner child. Let it run and roam free. It will take you on a brighter journey.”

We are parent of that child and it reacts as we want if we restrict that child to not come out then it will not but as a parent we should allow it to live and explore the life. Peoples think that if they will react like a child then what others will say that we are behaving immature and we don’t know how to take decisions because we are reacting childish but it’s not right because the child which live inside us lives for eternity, it never dies as I told you above age does not matter for that child. Someone rightly said that-

We does not stop play because we grow old. We grow old because we stop play.”

So, all I want to say is let your inner child comes out and let him play fearlessly, let him explore the life and stop thinking what others will think.

THOUGHTS BEFORE GOING TO SLEEP

“Always end the day with a positive thought. No matter how hard things were, Tomorrow’s a fresh opportunity to make it better.”

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In our day to day life we are engaged in so many activities in the duration of waking up from the bed in the morning till going to the bed again to sleep, some go to office and deal there with different kind of situation and peoples, some peoples have fun with their friends, some are having fight and arguments with someone and some have tension for the future and last but not least some go on a date with their special one and enjoy and so on.

So what I was explaining above is after spending a whole day engaging in different activities, now it’s time to go to the bed to have peaceful sleep but as it is human tendency that nothing is easy so how it can be easy to have a peaceful sleep – Ha Ha !  So, when we are lying on the bed to have a sleep there are so many different thoughts that goes around in our mind like what I did wrong in a whole day, what I did something good which will make me happy, analyzing what was my words during the argument which were right or wrong so we can apologize , some people regrets what they have done in their past, some people try to remember their best memories with their family and with someone special, some peoples are tensed about what is going to happen in their future. Oh God, it is  a never ending list.

What I feel is we are surrounded by a mixture of positive and negative thoughts in our life and with a lot of questions in our mind. It is because we are not satisfied with what we have and somewhere we have doubts in our mind on our dreams, on our hard work and most probably on our own this results in disappointment and wrong expectations from life, from peoples which results in losing hope and then we wait for the destiny to make it happen. Let me refer some quote here which I literally found so motivating-

“Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive about what could go right.”

“Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along.”

All these thoughts, worries and overthinking becomes the reason for not letting us sleep peacefully and it not only ruins our sleeps but also it ruins our tomorrow which may be results in opportunity but we miss that opportunity by not performing well because of the shit that was going around in our mind at that point of time when we need to be calm and happy not only by face but also by our inner soul.

“Think your way to happiness! Happy feelings attract happy circumstances.”

Solution to overcome out of this kind of shit is just to have faith on yourself and your prayers, surround yourself with lot of positive energy and self motivate yourself everytime when you feel you are falling down because nothing is constant in life, if you face bad days then there will be the time for good days also for sure.

Don’t compare your beginning with others and have courage to at least try to complete your dreams because trying is the beginning of all big things. Include meditation in your daily schedule it will prove helpful for creating a sense of calm.

I personally use is self talk & self motivation therapy before sleeping and it helps me a lot. Let me tell you the interesting thinking behind closing eyes through a quote –

“Why do we close our eyes when we pray, cry, kiss, dream? Because the most beautiful things in life are not seen but felt only by heart.” 

Quotes are by huffpost.com