Month: June 2020


We all go through a special feeling at some point of time in our life “the feeling of love”. The feeling when we feel that we want nothing else, when we feel that I am top of the world, the feeling which makes us realize that I am the special one, which becomes the reason to live a happy life and the person whom we love becomes the reason of our mood swings.

We all fall in love once in our life. I also fell in love for a guy who was as weird as Kabir Singh and I was having dream to spend my life with him since my childhood. He was not aware of my feelings at all. Time passed and I started my higher studies and I was a girl with full of dreams of being successful and passionate. He was a guy with chilling attitude and with the qualities like calm, introvert, angry young man kind of attitude, he was just opposite of me but still strong feelings were there in my heart for him.

My mentality for him was why he will choose me over other girls because he was good looking, fashionable, and was living royal life with his royal friends and I was a girl with simplicity who was not aware about fashion, who never cared that how she is looks. Someone rightly said that if you want something from all of your heart, you will surely get that. So, one day suddenly I got a message on facebook and that was from him, and just a message from him made my day, I started talking to him and I don’t know it was destiny or love or something else but we both fall in love with each other madly, I got a man of my dreams, it was not less than a dream come true for me. I never thought that I will be so important to him, I will become part of his life and he was the one who changed himself a lot for me.

But we are humans, we do mistakes and correct them, we expect to be understood by the person whom we love. But in my case a mistake ruined our relationship but when two souls love each other truly, they cannot be separated. Because of that mistake they broken up with each other but they forget that it’s hard to live without each other. A true love can never get fade for any reason. But because of the ego and over thinking we try to forget that person who love us more than we love ourselves and all the memories they had together and all the dream of living together.

But I just wanted to say complete your love stories, don’t leave them incomplete because of your misunderstandings, and become the backbone of your relationship and don’t let them go if you love them truly, try as hard as possible to live a happy and a dream life with them.

At last I just wanted to say that-

My love story is beautiful with lots of love, care, arguments, cheating, mistakes, and fights and crying for each other still I don’t know about my love story whether it will complete or not but try hard to complete yours.

 “I will never regret you, or say I wish I would never met you because once upon a time you were exactly what I needed and what I wish for. – Pilli version        


We all go through a lot of situations which seems unbearable and it takes our everything, our emotions, our time etc and becomes the reason of our mental stress and depression. We all face these situations at some point of time in our life when we realize that there should be someone who stands by us just for sake of listening whatever we have done whether it is wrong or right without being judgmental or criticizing. Some people call that person their friend, some people call it family member and some people call it their life partner.

But I call that person an angel of my life who never gets tired of my Continuous crying eyes, who never gets tired of my depressed behavior, who never gets tired of my silly talks, who never gets tired of being cheated by me and who never gets tired of my Demotivated behavior and so on.  An angel whose care and affection is selfless and unconditional, who is available for me each and every time when I need the most and when I was falling down that angel was there to raise me again. When I was doubting on my dreams, he was the one who believed in my dreams and gave me that confidence that whatever hurdles will come in my way I will cross all those hurdles and will accomplish all the dreams, one of those dreams was to be a blogger, today I have completed that dream and I am living that dream and I can say myself a blogger. I promise you, I will try to complete all my dreams.

 An angel who can feel my emotion and who took my insult as his own insult, who always get ready to fight with everyone for me and who corrects me if i choose wrong path, who stand by my decisions whether it will cause mental stress to him and who never guide me wrong for the sake of his own profit. I can write thousands of pages but the story will not end.

I know first when we listen so much good things for a person then suddenly a question comes in our mind that how could someone be so selfless and so good. As in today’s time these kind of person does not exist. Nobody have time for others and nobody does anything for anyone without any reason or without any demand. It came in my mind too and i tried a lot to find it out but I failed every time and I found these kind of souls still exist in today’s environment and I am the luckiest one who got that angel and that soul in my life.

But as we all know that no one can stay with us for the whole life because we all have some priorities and some more important relations in our life that we have to leave them behind and we have to look forward.

I wish you could stay with me for the whole life as my shadow and my best friend but it could not happen because I have to do it for my priorities and my relations who are more important to me then myself. I couldn’t hurt them. You always want me to be so much strong that I even don’t need you and can face everything on my own. You want me to be a selfish person so that I can think of me first before others. I am being selfish now and I hope you will like it. At last I wanted to say that-

“You are the best soul I have ever met. Thank you.”


“Your emotions make you human. Even the unpleasant ones have a purpose. Don’t lock them away. If you ignore them, they just get louder and angrier.”                                        ― Sabaa Tahir

We all feel several kind of emotions during our day to day life such as sadness, happiness, regretted, frustrated, anger, falling in love, being cheated, dominated by someone and so many. Our life is mixture of lots of emotions that we feel at some point of time in our life. In today’s world what I feel is that everyone is facing some sort of emotional issues in their life. There are peoples who get out of their emotions easily, they know how to control them and there are lot so other people who are just facing and getting dominated by their emotions and allowing their emotions to ruin their own life and making it difficult to feel happiness around there and live their life.

Having emotions and feeling each and every moment of our life is not a mistake, we all should have emotions and feelings in life because we are humans and our emotions makes us human. A man without emotions is not a human it is a body who is living for any purpose and those kinds of humans do not care about others feelings and emotions. I just want to say that let your emotions comes out, do not be afraid of what others will think about you, cry out loud, if needed, it is a sign of strong peoples who know how to show their emotions in front of peoples. Do not lock your emotions because if you will lock your emotions, it will just get louder and angrier which will become toxic to your mental health and will lead you to a destructive path which will ruin your life. Someone rightly said that-

“Don’t be ashamed to weep; its right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. A wounded heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us.”                                       ― Brian Jacques

It is not bad to have emotions and feelings but allowing emotions to control you becomes toxic. Make yourself so strong that emotions itself heals you and make that emotion, which is killing you inside, your reason to get out of it and stand up as a more strong human. It’s good to face these situation, these situations makes us stronger and gives us power to have more strong decisions in life. There are peoples who don’t feel too much as they care about themselves, they know that if they will give attention to their emotions then it will become the reason of their sadness and frustration, so they prefer to be selfish and decides to not feel too much and keep themselves away from emotions and nothing is bad in it because they are worried about their mental health, about their life, so they chose to control their emotions instead of giving power to emotions to control them. It is rightly said that-

“Life is a comedy to those who think a tragedy to those who feel.”                                                                                 ― Jean Racine

Surround yourself with happy and good energy and start doing whatever you like and love to do and keep toxic peoples and emotions away from you. Start controlling your emotions and whenever needed go and share your fears and emotions which are killing you inside to your family members and your closed ones and restrict yourself from being depressed. Be selfish when required and nothing is bad in being selfish for yourself.

“I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.”


A father’s tears and fears are unseen, his love is unexpressed, but his care and protection remain as a pillar of strength throughout our lives.”

– Ama H. Vanniarachchy

I know, nobody can explain a word and a relationship which is called “DAD” but here I am just trying to express, what DAD means to us. The role which a man called DAD plays in every daughter’s life is the kind of role which no one in this world can play and the importance that he has in daughter’s life, nobody else can have that importance in this world because DAD itself is the world for a daughter. Nobody can have position like her father in daughter’s life. Nobody can protect a girl like her father.

Father is someone who stand by their daughter even if she does something wrong and will teach her to correct her mistake without judging and will be ready to support in every hard time even when this society and this world will stand against his daughter. He is an example of strength, unconditional love and care. DAD is someone who let her daughter feel like a princess. DAD is someone who lives for your smile and DAD is someone who hides his pain to make us smile. It is rightly said that-

Dad is someone, who can play like a kid, give advice like a friend, and protect like a bodyguard.” 

Let me share my personal experience with my DAD. I think I have best DAD in the world who is happy if he see me smiling, he feels sad when I am sad, he feels and celebrate my success more than me and he take my achievements as his achievements and when I share my dreams with my father then he feels that those dreams are his own and start supporting me unconditionally. I make jokes with my father, I laugh with him like a crazy child, he is my best friend. There was a time when I was leaving home for my first job then he started crying thinking I am leaving him and he would not be able to see me daily and thinking now he has to keep in mind time factor to meet or see that daughter who means a world to him and at that time I was excited to do a job and having a better career but I was not thinking of leaving my DAD but after leaving home I realized I am nothing without my DAD, I thought now I am able to survive independently but I realized that i can never survive without my DAD, he is the reason of my confidence, my happiness, my strength , he is my everything. I am the kind of daughter who start calling her father even if she is not getting taxi easily to reach home from her office. If my DAD is with me and supports me then I can fight any battle easily. I feel top of the world when I become the reason of his SMILE and when he considers me as his PRIDE.

I THINK, DAD’s ARE AN ANGEL OF EVERY DAUGHTER. Let me refer a quote here-

In the darkest days, when I feel inadequate, unloved and unworthy, I remember whose daughter I am and I straighten my crown.”

Like me for every daughter her DAD is a ideal man who protects her, who make sacrifices to make her dreams come true, who understands his daughter’s each and every feelings whether is it happiness or sadness, who teach her daughter, how to be better person in life and how to get over from hard times and how to share and give happiness to peoples and how to choose right way to reach to the destination.

This is never ending discussion. In last I wanted to say that-

My DAD is my pride, My everything and I love him more than I love myself.

Guys if you have not expressed your feelings to your DAD till now that how much you love him then go and express it right now, after expressing you will feel top of the world.

share your best experiences and moments with your DAD in our comment section.


“Let us liberate ourselves from any form of control. Let us focus at the inner drum, where the rhythm aligns with that of our heart. The measure of responsibility equals to the need for evolution. Just listen, the inner child, let it whisper in your ear.” ― Grigoris Deoudis 

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We all are adults now and surrounded by so much hectic schedules and worries about so many things, some are busy in their higher studies, some are busy in their professional life’s, some are busy in getting married and so on. We have lot of responsibilities to fulfill towards our family, towards our friends, and for ourselves but somewhere during the process of completing these responsibilities we forgot to live our own life and to enjoy our own company.

We all are grown up now but growing does not mean that we have lost our childhood and I think we all have a child inside us and that inner child of us does not care about our age. The thing is we need to give that child freedom to enjoy and live its own journey and to annoy the peoples who are closed to us. There are time when we all feel that we need to share things which are making us worried to our close friends because we are not afraid of them that they will take it as joke in fact they will stand with us, just in the same way our inner child comes out with the person we are most comfortable with.

Let’s take my example, I have a child inside me who comes out when I am with my closest one and i am not afraid of reacting silly in front of them, I use to dance, sing loudly in such a irritating way and sometimes reacts like such a foolish girl and laugh madly making such a noisy sound and most important I use to even cry like a child in front of them if I feel frustrated or sad and all this happens not only in a close room but also roadside when we go to walk and they are perfectly okay with this kind of my nature, they don’t feel offended by such behavior of mine because they love me, they wants to see me happy. So I just want to say that give permission to yourself to play fearlessly without caring of what others will think, it will make your life even much better. Let me refer a perfect quote here –

Take those moments when something affects you deeply, or tickles your fancy, or peaks your curiosity, to give in and allow your Inner Child to explore, NO judgements, no role-playing, no need to impress. No adulting by modern standards.” ― Runa Pigden

I personally think that it is our inner child who becomes curious if something affects us deep inside and raise questions from us and try to find the ways to overcome the situations without making any judgments on ourselves. So, it is necessary to keep your inner child alive and well. While our adulthoods are a relentless assault of unrealistic demands and enormous responsibility, the ever curious inner child ask the vital questions, like, why is this important? And, will this make me happy?

There is a well known quote –

We nurture our creativity when we release our inner child. Let it run and roam free. It will take you on a brighter journey.”

We are parent of that child and it reacts as we want if we restrict that child to not come out then it will not but as a parent we should allow it to live and explore the life. Peoples think that if they will react like a child then what others will say that we are behaving immature and we don’t know how to take decisions because we are reacting childish but it’s not right because the child which live inside us lives for eternity, it never dies as I told you above age does not matter for that child. Someone rightly said that-

We does not stop play because we grow old. We grow old because we stop play.”

So, all I want to say is let your inner child comes out and let him play fearlessly, let him explore the life and stop thinking what others will think.


“Always end the day with a positive thought. No matter how hard things were, Tomorrow’s a fresh opportunity to make it better.”

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In our day to day life we are engaged in so many activities in the duration of waking up from the bed in the morning till going to the bed again to sleep, some go to office and deal there with different kind of situation and peoples, some peoples have fun with their friends, some are having fight and arguments with someone and some have tension for the future and last but not least some go on a date with their special one and enjoy and so on.

So what I was explaining above is after spending a whole day engaging in different activities, now it’s time to go to the bed to have peaceful sleep but as it is human tendency that nothing is easy so how it can be easy to have a peaceful sleep – Ha Ha !  So, when we are lying on the bed to have a sleep there are so many different thoughts that goes around in our mind like what I did wrong in a whole day, what I did something good which will make me happy, analyzing what was my words during the argument which were right or wrong so we can apologize , some people regrets what they have done in their past, some people try to remember their best memories with their family and with someone special, some peoples are tensed about what is going to happen in their future. Oh God, it is  a never ending list.

What I feel is we are surrounded by a mixture of positive and negative thoughts in our life and with a lot of questions in our mind. It is because we are not satisfied with what we have and somewhere we have doubts in our mind on our dreams, on our hard work and most probably on our own this results in disappointment and wrong expectations from life, from peoples which results in losing hope and then we wait for the destiny to make it happen. Let me refer some quote here which I literally found so motivating-

“Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive about what could go right.”

“Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along.”

All these thoughts, worries and overthinking becomes the reason for not letting us sleep peacefully and it not only ruins our sleeps but also it ruins our tomorrow which may be results in opportunity but we miss that opportunity by not performing well because of the shit that was going around in our mind at that point of time when we need to be calm and happy not only by face but also by our inner soul.

“Think your way to happiness! Happy feelings attract happy circumstances.”

Solution to overcome out of this kind of shit is just to have faith on yourself and your prayers, surround yourself with lot of positive energy and self motivate yourself everytime when you feel you are falling down because nothing is constant in life, if you face bad days then there will be the time for good days also for sure.

Don’t compare your beginning with others and have courage to at least try to complete your dreams because trying is the beginning of all big things. Include meditation in your daily schedule it will prove helpful for creating a sense of calm.

I personally use is self talk & self motivation therapy before sleeping and it helps me a lot. Let me tell you the interesting thinking behind closing eyes through a quote –

“Why do we close our eyes when we pray, cry, kiss, dream? Because the most beautiful things in life are not seen but felt only by heart.” 

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Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It’ll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called ‘perfection,’ which will open the doors to the most important relationships you’ll ever be a part of.

-Dan Pearce

We all have so many relations in our life with different persons and each relation depends on the emotion we share with them and out of these relations some are very close to our heart, some are not so close but they means a lot for us and some are so normal relations that they will not even affect us if they will not exist.

So whatever I explained above was just to say that somewhere our being REAL depends on the bonds and emotions that we share with such relations because sometimes there comes situations where things happen which were not right from their perspective but was right from our perspective and that makes them angry and hurt them so badly and then we start being unreal in front of them thinking that it will not at least hurt them but at that time we forgot that when they will come to know the reality that we hided something from them or we were unreal with them, they will get more hurt than before and that results in misunderstanding which becomes the reason of an end of the relation.

What I think is, being REAL is a best thing that we can have in our life to not let down the peoples who are so close to us because if our relation that we share with them matters in their life then they will never mind your being real for whatever reason and they will start respecting you even more or if your being real bother them then you will come to know the fake relations in your life. Someone rightly said that-

Be who you are and say what you want, for those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind” – Dr. Seuss

In the world we are living now you will meet peoples who are so mean and selfish that they make relations just to make some profit for them or thinking that somewhere this relation will help them in future and they will be so sweet to you on your face but in reality they are fake, they made that relations just for the sake of their own help and they are not your well wishers. So being real is not just who’s being real on your face it is also about who is real behind your back. So whenever you are being part of any relation whether it is a friendship or something else, choose those persons wisely so that you could be a part of a real relation or you could have real peoples in your life and could stay away of fake relations.

Sometimes we stuck in the situation when we have to decide what is right or wrong and we choose a right option but people thinks we are being rude to them by choosing a right option but it is just the matter of being real with them. What I personally think is, being rude is better than being unreal and giving peoples wrong hopes. I want to refer a quote here –

Be who you are and say what you feel. It’s not being rude, it’s being real”

If we are being unreal in our life just to be impressive then we are not living our own life, we are trying to be someone else which we are not. Time is so precious thing which never comes back, so don’t waste it in living someone else’s life because being real is more impressive.

For me “Being real and getting the name WORST is way better than being fake and getting the name BEST”.

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“The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.”
– Oprah Winfrey

So here I am going to discuss a theory of dreams of a big dreamy girl and that is me – Kavita Dhaked.

When I was a student My dream was just to become a successful independent girl and to have all the luxuries on my own and those were the days when I was just aware of the fact that something named as “DREAMS” exist in this world so I just saw a dream but I did not even think about how will I complete this dream.

With passes of time I realized that only having any dream in your life does not works unless you make it your wish or goal and works towards it to accomplish. Let me refer a quote here which defines this situation-

A dream is a wish your heart makes”

After that I realized that dream is not something which will complete in a day, it is long process and each action which is needed to take your dream to its destination needs planning in a proper manner because each action have its own consequences. Once your dream becomes your goal then it will not let you sleep unless you accomplish it.

Again I realized that it is not easy to live your dream because even a step which will lead to accomplishment of your dream itself becomes a dream unless you start. So just “START” in the best way you can with what you have. Someone rightly said that-

Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.”

So after completing my 12th standard I took my first step towards my dream by deciding to have my higher studies and I chose to be a chartered Accountant (CA). I started doing CA thinking it will be a starting step to complete the journey of my dream but I did not know when having prefix “CA” before my name itself became my dream. I worked so hard and it took my sleepless days and nights to accomplish. There were so many thoughts that were going around in my mind and heart when I was on this journey like what if I got failure, sometimes there comes situations when i felt like I can’t do this I lost all my hopes when I got failure during this journey.

At that time I felt that now it’s not only a dream, it became my emotion, my goal and a reason to live so one day I just woke up and speak up to myself whatever hurdles I will get during this journey I will face those hurdles, all the failures but I will not give up on my dreams and I will give my everything to accomplish my goal my dream then I just rise up again and started working hard and then there was a day when I got prefix “CA” before my name and my name changed to –

CA Kavita Dhaked”

It was the best feeling ever and best day of my life, so like this I lived my dream. Now I can say-

I dreamed it, I wished it, I made it my emotion, and I did it and now I am living it”

Are you living your dream?


Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

I think, Dreams are part of everyone’s life. Some dreams are what a person sees and hears in their mind when they are sleeping & some dreams are what we create with our imagination to get what we want our life and what we aim for, and such kind of dreams are those which don’t let us sleep.

There are so many of dreams that peoples have in their life such as many dreams for a successful career, many dreams for bungalow for their family, many dreams for having a Lamborghini and many dreams for having a fairytale love life etc. hence it is never ending list.

We have different dreams in different phases of life, some of them accomplished so easily and some of them left unaccomplished and some of them take our everything to get them fulfilled. So to make our dreams a reality we need to “TRY” and “BELIEVE” in them. There are well known quotes which clarifies process of completing dreams which I found quite interesting-

Dream it, wish it, do it”


Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.”

We need to be so passionate about our dreams that nothing could restrict us from turning them into reality, so until you succeed just try and learn from the mistake you did earlier and then try again. Someone rightly said that-

Let your dreams be bigger than your fears”