Day: June 7, 2020

THEORY OF DREAMS OF A BIG DREAMY GIRL

“The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.”
– Oprah Winfrey

So here I am going to discuss a theory of dreams of a big dreamy girl and that is me – Kavita Dhaked.

When I was a student My dream was just to become a successful independent girl and to have all the luxuries on my own and those were the days when I was just aware of the fact that something named as “DREAMS” exist in this world so I just saw a dream but I did not even think about how will I complete this dream.

With passes of time I realized that only having any dream in your life does not works unless you make it your wish or goal and works towards it to accomplish. Let me refer a quote here which defines this situation-

A dream is a wish your heart makes”

After that I realized that dream is not something which will complete in a day, it is long process and each action which is needed to take your dream to its destination needs planning in a proper manner because each action have its own consequences. Once your dream becomes your goal then it will not let you sleep unless you accomplish it.

Again I realized that it is not easy to live your dream because even a step which will lead to accomplishment of your dream itself becomes a dream unless you start. So just “START” in the best way you can with what you have. Someone rightly said that-

Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.”

So after completing my 12th standard I took my first step towards my dream by deciding to have my higher studies and I chose to be a chartered Accountant (CA). I started doing CA thinking it will be a starting step to complete the journey of my dream but I did not know when having prefix “CA” before my name itself became my dream. I worked so hard and it took my sleepless days and nights to accomplish. There were so many thoughts that were going around in my mind and heart when I was on this journey like what if I got failure, sometimes there comes situations when i felt like I can’t do this I lost all my hopes when I got failure during this journey.

At that time I felt that now it’s not only a dream, it became my emotion, my goal and a reason to live so one day I just woke up and speak up to myself whatever hurdles I will get during this journey I will face those hurdles, all the failures but I will not give up on my dreams and I will give my everything to accomplish my goal my dream then I just rise up again and started working hard and then there was a day when I got prefix “CA” before my name and my name changed to –

CA Kavita Dhaked”

It was the best feeling ever and best day of my life, so like this I lived my dream. Now I can say-

I dreamed it, I wished it, I made it my emotion, and I did it and now I am living it”

Are you living your dream?

“DREAM UNTILL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE”

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

I think, Dreams are part of everyone’s life. Some dreams are what a person sees and hears in their mind when they are sleeping & some dreams are what we create with our imagination to get what we want our life and what we aim for, and such kind of dreams are those which don’t let us sleep.

There are so many of dreams that peoples have in their life such as many dreams for a successful career, many dreams for bungalow for their family, many dreams for having a Lamborghini and many dreams for having a fairytale love life etc. hence it is never ending list.

We have different dreams in different phases of life, some of them accomplished so easily and some of them left unaccomplished and some of them take our everything to get them fulfilled. So to make our dreams a reality we need to “TRY” and “BELIEVE” in them. There are well known quotes which clarifies process of completing dreams which I found quite interesting-

Dream it, wish it, do it”

OR

Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.”

We need to be so passionate about our dreams that nothing could restrict us from turning them into reality, so until you succeed just try and learn from the mistake you did earlier and then try again. Someone rightly said that-

Let your dreams be bigger than your fears”