Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It’ll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called ‘perfection,’ which will open the doors to the most important relationships you’ll ever be a part of.

-Dan Pearce

We all have so many relations in our life with different persons and each relation depends on the emotion we share with them and out of these relations some are very close to our heart, some are not so close but they means a lot for us and some are so normal relations that they will not even affect us if they will not exist.

So whatever I explained above was just to say that somewhere our being REAL depends on the bonds and emotions that we share with such relations because sometimes there comes situations where things happen which were not right from their perspective but was right from our perspective and that makes them angry and hurt them so badly and then we start being unreal in front of them thinking that it will not at least hurt them but at that time we forgot that when they will come to know the reality that we hided something from them or we were unreal with them, they will get more hurt than before and that results in misunderstanding which becomes the reason of an end of the relation.

What I think is, being REAL is a best thing that we can have in our life to not let down the peoples who are so close to us because if our relation that we share with them matters in their life then they will never mind your being real for whatever reason and they will start respecting you even more or if your being real bother them then you will come to know the fake relations in your life. Someone rightly said that-

Be who you are and say what you want, for those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind” – Dr. Seuss

In the world we are living now you will meet peoples who are so mean and selfish that they make relations just to make some profit for them or thinking that somewhere this relation will help them in future and they will be so sweet to you on your face but in reality they are fake, they made that relations just for the sake of their own help and they are not your well wishers. So being real is not just who’s being real on your face it is also about who is real behind your back. So whenever you are being part of any relation whether it is a friendship or something else, choose those persons wisely so that you could be a part of a real relation or you could have real peoples in your life and could stay away of fake relations.

Sometimes we stuck in the situation when we have to decide what is right or wrong and we choose a right option but people thinks we are being rude to them by choosing a right option but it is just the matter of being real with them. What I personally think is, being rude is better than being unreal and giving peoples wrong hopes. I want to refer a quote here –

Be who you are and say what you feel. It’s not being rude, it’s being real”

If we are being unreal in our life just to be impressive then we are not living our own life, we are trying to be someone else which we are not. Time is so precious thing which never comes back, so don’t waste it in living someone else’s life because being real is more impressive.

For me “Being real and getting the name WORST is way better than being fake and getting the name BEST”.

I want to end this with a beautiful picture with a deep meaning-

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